There’s a story busy people love to believe. It sounds responsible. Strategic. Even wise.

“I’ll slow down after this.”

“I’ll reconnect when things calm down.”

“I’ll be present after I finish everything.”

But that story is a lie!

You don’t say “no.” You say: “After.”

After the meeting.

After the deadline.

After this “urgent” thing is done.

Except… after keeps moving. It’s never here.

And everything that matters? Keeps getting pushed to the side.

The people. The promises.

Even the parts of yourself you swore you’d care for.

“I’ll start working out after school starts.”

“I’ll rest after this deadline.”

“I’ll eat better after summer.”

“I’ll live… later.”

But later is a thief. Here’s the truth:

There’s always more to do.

There’s always someone to respond to.

There’s always one more thing to prove.

But while you manage the pressure you start missing the life you’re working so hard to protect.

Because the peace you’re chasing? It won’t show up “after.” It only lives in now.

So ask honestly: Are you building a life or just surviving one?

If that question hits something deep, don’t ignore it. Let’s make space for what actually matters.

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“Every challenge holds a 🗝️. Stay tuned for the next insight to unlock yours.”

Warmly,

Fatma Farhat

ACC/ICF Certified Coach | Nova Global Certified Profiler | Trainer I Ambassador of Glion Alumni Tunisia